Healing Betrayal Trauma: Why ‘Let’s Just Talk About It Later’ Doesn’t Work

It's a normal scenario: the betrayed desires or requires to talk, and the unfaithful just does not have it in them at the minute. Get in the phrase that appears to diffuse the situation, yet only exacerbates the whole procedure of recovery: 'let's just discuss it later on.' I make certain you know the rest; the fact is, "later on" very seldom ever comes. The unfaithful struggles to find their words and hold on to themselves, and not circle the drain in embarassment. The betrayed is pining…

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Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity

How would respond if someone began assaulting your mate? I know I am going to be really dissentious this week, and make a lot of people uncomfortable. However abuse is an uncomfortable subject. Nevertheless, by discussing abusive habits and offering individuals understanding and the ability to bring these behaviors out into the light we can recover them, resolve them, and overcome them on our healing journey. While this week I am directing my message more towards the unfaithful, and I understand not everyone is guilty of these…

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How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence?

When an unfaithful partner is attempting to break devoid of their affair partner, it can appear like they are literally detoxing from using a drug. Did you understand there is really a neurochemical process in play? It's called limerence and, today, I'll be sharing four ways to get away limerence and discover flexibility for the unfaithful spouse, while likewise supplying vital insight for the betrayed partner to comprehend and grasp this idea of limerence. FULL, FREE Short Article here: – Sign Up With the Healing Library: –…

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Recovery Work: What Is It and What Does It Look Like?

Let's talk today about recovery work, what it appears like, and why it's so darn essential. The crushing truth is that the trauma that has been brought on by adultery isn't just a jail sentence that we can simply suffer up until the crippling pain and anger decrease. The passing of time, in itself, isn't adequate to fight the magnitude of what we're dealing with here. It's about what we choose to do with the time that is going to make all the distinction in our future….

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Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse

Getting below the sighs, aggravations, and basic misunderstandings of trauma is important when trying to recover from adultery. If we don't, we can undermine recovery and the security so desperately needed in the relationship. This week, Laurie shares 3 useful methods to help stabilize and understand the danger level the betrayed partner may be sensation, with the supreme purpose of improving the healing process. FULL, FREE Article here: – Sign Up With the Recovery Library:. – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Extramarital Relations:. – Subscribe to…

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Caring for Your Body after Betrayal Is Essential – Part 2

Caring for your body throughout the process/time of healing from infidelity/cheating/betrayal is important but is typically ignored. I can keep in mind in the days, weeks, and months after my D-Day (discovery day) simply how terribly the invasive thoughts would knock into my mind at random times during the day and how I would not have the ability to capture my breath. In Part 2 of my series on taking care of your body, I wish to share specific methods to take care of yourself and support…

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Secret Life and Timely Death of a Cell Phone

Today Candace shares a letter submitted to Affair Healing about a woman's psychological journey surrounding her hubby's cell phone, a silent witness to his extramarital relations. The phone served as a tool for deceit, with secret discussions and planned meetings, while erasing any trace of her presence. Despite its betrayal, the phone ended up being a source of reality, clarifying her husband's affair. She provides practical pointers for handling cell phone use in the wake of discovering adultery. These objective to assist the betrayed spouse in easing…

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Hope Rising 2021 Event Recap | A Day full of Hope and Resources for Betrayed Spouses Only

For those who may not understand what Hope Rising is, or if you're not sure about the virtual experience, we have actually put together a quick wrap-up of the Fourth Annual Hope Increasing Conference in 2021 that brought hope and guidance to a record variety of betrayed spouses in the Affair Healing community. Hope Increasing 2022 tickets are readily available now, do not miss out! Purchase Hope Increasing 2022 tickets here: – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Adultery: – Subscribe to…

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Hope Rising 2023 Speaker Announcement – Preeti Shah, MACP & LMHC

Join us Saturday, September 30 for An occasion filled with hope, practical techniques, and resources for betrayed spouses only! Tickets readily available here: Preeti got her Masters in Counseling Psychology in 2006, from Mars Hill Graduate School (currently called the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology). Her areas of focus include Differentiation Based Relationship Therapy and EMDR therapy. She has years of experience working in sexual dependency and betrayal utilizing the Licensed Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Out of Control Sexual Habits (OSB) models with a sexual…

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Communication with a Pregnant Affair Partner: Lessons Learned and What Worked for Us

This is not a simple journey and it will be imperfect and awkward however when the Affair Partner is pregnant as an outcome of cheating, we have learned some crucial lessons about how to navigate this scenario with the very best interest of the kid at the center while still having the ability to recover and recuperate. In this blog site I will talk about these lessons and what worked for us to assist you. – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Extramarital Relations: – What type of affair…

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Is the Unfaithful Partner Repairable?

It's a concern the betrayed partner finds themselves asking time and time again: Is my unfaithful partner repairable? What betrayed partner would not ask this concern? While every scenario is different, the answer can be important to the hope of the betrayed and the self-esteem of the unfaithful. Today you'll hear Samuel share pointed however compassionate markers on how to inform if the unfaithful partner is repairable or not. Feel confident, for those who are dedicated to recovery and dedicated to doing the work required to recover…

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New Survivors’ Blog Tomorrow! “Help for Those in Affair Recovery Crisis”

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A Guided Meditation for Cultivating Compassion

In today's video, Karen walks through a short, guided meditation that concentrates on empathy and encourages you to give yourself awareness to find peace. Opening our hearts and practicing self-compassion, and empathy for others, can assist us accept and develop space for our stress and anxieties and can be profoundly recovery.. Whether you are new to meditation or have a routine practice, this time together will offer insights and tools for your recovery journey. – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Extramarital Relations:. – What sort of affair was…

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Hope Rising 2023 Event Recap | A Day Full of Hope and Resources for Betrayed Spouses Only

For those who may not understand what Hope Increasing is, or if you're uncertain about the virtual experience, we have actually assembled a short wrap-up of the Sixth Annual Hope Rising Conference in 2023 that brought hope and assistance to a record variety of betrayed spouses in the Affair Healing community. Hope Increasing 2023 As needed is readily available now, don't lose out! Purchase Hope Rising 2023 As Needed here: – Join the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Infidelity: – Subscribe to the…

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Feb 2024 Favorite Expert Q&A | Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy & Care about me Again?

Do you have a burning question for our infidelity experts? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend enables you to send your question to the Expert Q&A. Each week we film a member of our Medical Expert Factors team in the AR Studio responding to those questions. Not all set to take a course? A Recovery Library Subscription consists of access to over 3,000 Expert Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Cheating: – Subscribe to the…

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November 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner?

Do you have a burning concern for our cheating specialists? Taking part in our online courses or EMS Weekend permits you to submit your question to the Professional Q&A. Every week we film a member of our Scientific Professional Factors team in the AR Studio answering those questions. Not prepared to take a course? A Healing Library Subscription consists of access to over 3,000 Specialist Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Infidelity: – Subscribe to the AffairRecovery.com newsletter article…

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New Expert Interview w/ Amanda Asproni Out Tomorrow @ 10AM!

For decades betrayed partners have shared emphatically how they feel they are the ones needing to console or care for their unfaithful partners after the disclosure of an affair. It's a thorn in the side of a generation of betrayed partners who feel like they are the real victims in this formula, yet they are incapacitated by an unfaithful partner who continues to make the scenario more about them than the betrayed. Tomorrow Samuel & Amanda will identify why unproductive and often damaging responses like this happen…

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Plateaus: When Your Relationship Isn’t Where You Want It to Be After an Affair or Addiction

Have you ever reached a point in your own healing, or in your relationship, where you thought to yourself: is this truly as great as it's going to get? Perhaps you've found yourself fairly delighted, but simply not satisfied with the repair you've done? Like many, you may have likewise felt like you or your relationship were making excellent strides, revealing ongoing momentum and promise, and now you feel stuck. You may discover yourself on a plateau. Often, a plateau can be misinterpreted as an ominous indication…

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January 2024 Favorite Q&A | What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair?

Do you have a burning concern for our extramarital relations professionals? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to send your question to the Specialist Q&A. Weekly we movie a member of our Scientific Professional Contributors team in the AR Studio addressing those concerns. Not prepared to take a course? A Recovery Library Subscription includes access to over 3,000 Specialist Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Cheating: – Sign up for the AffairRecovery.com newsletter short article…

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First Steps Bootcamp for Surviving Infidelity

Start Today: affairrecovery.com/surviving-infidelity/first-steps-bootcamp Browsing your way through the turmoil of extramarital relations is similar to swimming underwater in the dark. You wish to breathe however don't know if you're increasing or down, making progress or drowning. We've been there ourselves and have actually dealt with thousands of couples with similar battles, so we're extremely familiar with the obstacles you face. More significantly, we can reveal you the essential actions for discovering your way back to the surface area. The Initial step Bootcamp offers you the very first…

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October ’23 Favorite Expert Q&A | Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?

Do you have a burning question for our extramarital relations specialists? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to submit your question to the Professional Q&A. Weekly we film a member of our Scientific Professional Contributors team in the AR Studio responding to those questions. Not prepared to take a course? A Recovery Library Membership includes access to over 3,000 Expert Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Cheating: – Register for the AffairRecovery.com newsletter…

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June 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | Is Depression and Lack of Focus Common for Betrayed Spouses?

Do you have a burning question for our cheating specialists? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to send your question to the Specialist Q&A. Each week we movie a member of our Scientific Expert Contributors group in the AR Studio answering those concerns. Not prepared to take a course? A Recovery Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Specialist Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Cheating: – Register for the AffairRecovery.com newsletter…

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For the Betrayed: It Is OK to Disappoint Others – Healing from Infidelity

Whether being "people pleasing" has actually belonged of your character or you just do not want to disappoint others; after you have been betrayed, after your world has actually been flipped upside down, you may still feel a pull to be everything to everyone. To serve. To be there in all the ways. Nevertheless, this journey is strenuous, difficult, laden with low and high, and like or not, to be effective, you will have to disappoint people along the way as you concentrate on yourself and your…

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New Survivors’ Blog Tomorrow! | Handling the Losses Associated with Infidelity

Tomorrow Samuel points a way through the smoke and despair of rejection and loss to clarity, nerve and wish for the future. Visit for more! New Survivors' Blog Tomorrow! | Handling the Losses Associated with Infidelity Save My Marriage Today!

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Songs for the Soul | Turn Your Eyes (S2:E7)

We are so ecstatic to share Season 2, Episode 7 of 'Songs for the Soul' with Rodney & Angela. Songs for the Soul was developed by this motivating couple as a space where their testament satisfies their harmony, to motivate couples and individuals who are getting rid of extramarital relations. Chapters: 0:00 Turn Your Eyes 14:27 Song for the Soul – Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus 22:16 Prayer – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Cheating: – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. –…

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Why Do Addiction Recovery?

Today you'll hear from our most recent video blogger Mickey Peters. Have you ever considered that there may be benefits to addiction healing work? Perhaps you're wondering 'can anything good ever come of my addiction?' Today you'll hear not just a couple of positives that have come out of Mickey's journey but you'll also hear a palatable understanding of how to move through dependency into wholeness and personal repair. – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Extramarital Relations:. – What kind of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair…

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“I Don’t Even Know Who I am Anymore!” Help for Those in Affair Recovery Crisis

"I do not even understand who I am anymore" is among the most common statements shared in therapy sessions after a spouse endeavors to heal from infidelity. They seem like they're losing themselves, or even worse, have currently lost themselves giving way to bouts of almost uncontrollable rage, anger and life altering trauma. The reality is, they simply may be losing a variation of themselves that needs to be grieved, buried and proceeded from. Today Samuel shares a gritty yet compassionate conversation on how to discover hope…

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Guided Relaxation to Quiet the Flooding

In this video, Karen guides you through a short meditation to help manage the overwhelming emotions that betrayal trauma brings at a moment's notice. When flooded, intense emotions end up being tough to manage or manage. This practice will bring you back to the present, restore your sense of grounding, assist you think more plainly and respond more calmly. – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Adultery: – What kind of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Expert Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library…

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EMS Online Registration Opens March 8th!

Click the link below for more details! Fed up with not having a comprehensive plan to recover after infidelity? This course strolls you through the vital steps required to deal with the infidelity and reconnect as a couple. "EMS" Online represents Emergency situation Marital Workshop Online. Our methodology has actually been developed over years of experience exclusively focusing on this field. Up front, it is essential to understand that we won't pity the unfaithful spouse nor blame the betrayed spouse. This is a safe location for both…

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2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process

Can you picture not having the freedom to make the best choice for you because you didn't have all of the info? Adults are worthy of to have option and firm over their lives. That's exactly why browsing disclosure after cheating is vital. The betrayed partner deserves openness about what occurred so they can be empowered with the liberty to pick a course forward. Today, Laurie Bryson, LPC shares the vital significance of disclosure being more than just a retelling of events, however rather a method for…

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January 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?

Do you have a burning question for our infidelity experts? Taking part in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to send your concern to the Specialist Q&A. Each week we film a member of our Clinical Expert Contributors group in the AR Studio answering those questions. Not all set to take a course? A Healing Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Cheating: – Subscribe to the AffairRecovery.com newsletter…

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Harboring Hope | Online Course For Betrayed Spouses | Registration opens December 7th!

Registration for Harboring Hope opens on December 7th at midday main time. Register here: No matter whether the unfaithful spouse is encouraging, unsupportive, or gone, we desire you to feel hope again. Whole once again. Home again. Harboring Hope is specifically developed for betrayed spouses by expert counselors who are likewise betrayed partners. We know the discomfort. We have actually existed. We desire you to understand that you are not alone, you are not crazy, and you are not predestined to grieve permanently. Harboring Hope can help…

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Harboring Hope Testimonial | Jenny, Alumna

Registration opens Feb. 1 @ 12pm Central. Click the link below for more details! Regardless of whether the unfaithful spouse is supportive, unsupportive, or gone, we desire you to feel hope again. Entire again. House again. Harboring Hope is specifically developed for betrayed partners by professional counselors who are likewise betrayed partners. We know the discomfort. We have existed. We desire you to understand that you are not alone, you are not crazy, and you are not destined to grieve forever. Harboring Hope can help you find…

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Finding Joy During the Holidays

Finding Happiness in the Holidays – Alumna Blog Site by Melissa Fisher Do not just survive the vacations; utilize them as a driver for hope, recovery, and flourishing in new life by discovering the Joy in them. The holidays are one of the lots of difficult times an individual faces when healing from extramarital relations and our Alumna, Melissa speaks directly to this obstacle while providing your practical and real guidance, tips, and encouragement in navigating the vacations. Hear straight from Melissa who has been where you…

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You HAVE to Be Kidding!?

Handling hard minutes can be difficult on a great day, but what do you do when they snowball in the middle of cheating? Today, Candace shares a few of the extremely tough moments she faced while handling her husband's cheating in addition to a professional tip from her therapist that still assists her in her healing work today.. – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Adultery:. – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Professional Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library Membership:….

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Signs the Unfaithful Partner Is Safe in Affair Recovery Work

Determining when the unfaithful partner is safe in recovery work can be complicated, challenging and simply plain frustrating. The bright side is, there are metrics one can utilize to identify if the unfaithful celebration is major about their specific recovery work as well as their primary relationship. The affair recovery procedure is not just possible but necessary if a couple is going to overcome cheating or dependency. The procedure requires a skillset that Samuel clearly specifies and shares for those wondering if their partner is safe. Without…

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Hope Rising Is Proud to Welcome Lynn Marie Cherry!

For additional information and tickets click the link below! Returning once again to Hope Increasing is our conference chair and your host for the day @lynnmariecherry. Lynn enjoys occurring side the group at Affair Healing for this annual conference. She is so grateful for the function Affair Recovery played in her own recovery journey. Lynn keeps in mind how if felt the first time she walked into a space with other betrayed spouses and she'll be waiting to welcome you October 12th . Lynn is an interesting…

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Answering Questions Post D-Day

Asking and addressing concerns is a guarantee with infidelity/cheating, however it is how the questions are asked and answered that identify if healing or damage will happen. In this post I want to check out some aspects of Q&A's post D-Day and how to perform them in a healthy way while supplying some pro suggestions for both the unfaithful and the betrayed to browse this challenging minefield. I hope my experience and lessons discovered can be a guiding light for you, as you can make it through…

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Hope Rising 2022 Is Proud to Welcome Jenny Barrios!

Purchase your ticket for Hope Rising 2022 here: Following her spouse's adulteries, Jenny felt damaged and devastated; she found support and her voice in the betrayed neighborhood forums at Affair Healing. EMS Online and Harboring Hope paved the roadway to finding peace and recovery. As a high school science teacher, mom of 3 young boys, and devoted handicraft enthusiast, she found a community of professional and authentic people by leading Harboring Hope groups. Continuing to share her journey and desire for real relationships keeps her on the…

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A Victim of Our Own Recklessness | Affair Recovery Survivors’ Blog

Samuel is an infidelity survivor and is one of lots of factors to Affair Healing's Survivors' Blog,. He participated in Affair Healing's courses established by founder and extramarital relations expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW. After finding healing, hope, and brand-new life, Samuel wishes to share his journey and what AffairRecovery.com has to provide with others so they too can discover hope and healing. – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Adultery:. – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Professional Articles & Videos:. Get…

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June 2022 Favorite Expert Q&A | What Do I Do If My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner?

Do you have a burning concern for our infidelity experts? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to submit your concern to the Specialist Q&A. Every week we movie a member of our Scientific Professional Contributors group in the AR Studio responding to those questions. Not all set to take a course? A Recovery Library Subscription consists of access to over 3,000 Expert Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Infidelity: – Subscribe to the…

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A Conversation About Intimacy & Reconnection

After discovery or disclosure of an affair or sexual dependency, the betrayed partner is frequently overwhelmed with uncomfortable tips, sets off, and insecurities. Re-engaging mentally with the former unfaithful is tough enough, however even the thought of resuming sexual activity with their mate can send hurt partners into a panic spiral. As healthy as connection is, it is likewise terrifying to be susceptible once again, and both the betrayed and the unfaithful can be activated in those intimate minutes. When this happens there is a choice –…

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The Affair Causing Habit

Some claim it was their marriage that made them susceptible to an affair, but in reality it's bad practices. If we apply the way we associated with others as a single person to our life as a married person, we will put our mate and the marriage at danger. Do you ever consider how your interactions with others affects them? Today's newsletter, Rick shares individual insight as to how he unintentionally put his marital relationship and others at risk. Little shifts in how you communicate with others…

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December 2022 Favorite Expert Q&A | How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?

Do you have a burning question for our cheating professionals? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to submit your question to the Specialist Q&A. Each week we movie a member of our Clinical Expert Factors team in the AR Studio answering those concerns. Not prepared to take a course? A Healing Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Extramarital Relations: – Sign up for the…

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July 2022 Favorite Expert Q&A | How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?

Do you have a burning question for our adultery professionals? Taking part in our online courses or EMS Weekend permits you to send your concern to the Expert Q&A. Every week we film a member of our Scientific Professional Contributors group in the AR Studio responding to those questions. Not prepared to take a course? A Recovery Library Subscription includes access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Extramarital Relations: – Sign up for the AffairRecovery.com…

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When Anxiety Takes Over: Lessons Learned from Inside Out 2

Sign up with Melissa as she shares her insights from the amusing and captivating brand-new movie, "Inside Out 2". Relating to the main character, she examines the problem of navigating brand-new, uncomfortable feelings, relating her own battles with anxiety and trauma in different parts of her life. Through the creative lens of a Pixar movie, Melissa is moved to pause and consider the powerful truth of how our imaginations can form our realities. Whether facing stress and anxiety with something as apparently easy as the dental professional's…

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New Survivors’ Blog tomorrow! | A Tool for the Betrayed Partner Who Feels Powerless after an Affair

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Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery

Psychological regulation uses us the ability to react to our feelings in a positive or delayed way. When set off by daily occasions, psychological guideline enables us to be flexible enough to delay a spontaneous response, even when we experience injury. This allows us time to gather our ideas and be more critical with our behavior.. In this newsletter, Karen will dive into the biological significance of the Vagus Nerve and how it plays a considerable function in controling our response to stress and injury. In addition,…

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Surviving Infidelity Series: How Do We Handle Rejection Before, During & After an Affair

Rejection is a horrible thing to handle, whether it be from adolescence, high school, or years later on from our better half or spouse. Enter adultery or dependency, and the rejection beast seemingly sprouts seven other heads. If we are going to move beyond the initial devastation of extramarital relations, it's crucial that we understand our need for a game plan to process through the painful litany of emotions and general reactions we've probably displayed. The good news is, there is a method through, and there is…

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4 Toxic Responses of Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners in Affair Recovery Work

The last thing any partner needs when trying to heal from extramarital relations is more injuring. The roadway to healing is hard enough without any added complications and land mines to navigate. But how do you discriminate between what is poisonous and what is typical? How do you correctly and compassionately comprehend your partner's reaction even though it may be harsh? Is it warranted or is it just out of privilege or rage? Today Samuel goes over four of the most common hazardous actions on the roadway…

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One of the Biggest Needs of the Unfaithful Partner after an Affair: Humility

After an affair, the unfaithful celebration can have problem with an incredible quantity of confusion and disorientation. Of course we understand the betrayed can feel by doing this also, but today Samuel is going to focus on a discipline that all stubborn spouses can gain from: the view from the bottom. Borrowed from a commentary by Richard Rohr, Samuel shares the need for the unfaithful celebration to embrace and practice humility, both in their approach to life in general, and particularly towards their betrayed partner and children….

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New Survivors’ Blog Tomorrow | 4 Toxic Responses in Recovery Work

Tomorrow Samuel talks about 4 of the most common poisonous reactions on the roadway to recovery for both the unfaithful and betrayed. See: for more! New Survivors' Blog Tomorrow | 4 Toxic Responses in Recovery Work Save My Marriage Today!

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Songs for the Soul | Why We Sing (S2:E1)

Find hope and healing in the testament and music of an inspiring couple, Rodney & Angela, as they discuss reasons why they sing – to motivate couples and people in recovery from cheating. Chapters: 0:00 Why We Sing 19:45 Tune for the Soul – Therapist 26:07 Prayer – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Extramarital Relations: – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: – FREE Expert Articles & Videos: Get a Healing Library Subscription: – Gain access to 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles…

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Hope Rising 2024 Keynote Speaker Announcement

Register for Hope Increasing 2024 here: We are thrilled to announce our Hope Increasing 2024 Keynote Speaker, Leslie Hardie, LCSW, Co-Author of Harboring Hope, a life changing course for betrayed partners. Leslie is an extramarital relations and trauma specialist who has been in private practice since 2003. She works with individuals and couples regarding a wide spectrum of specific and relational problems, in addition to her cheating work. She thinks that life crises are chances that can be utilized for greater self-awareness and personal growth, which cheating…

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Songs for the Soul | Then Sings my Soul (S2:E4)

In this episode, Rodney and Angela sing "How Terrific Thou Art/Then Sings My Soul" as they go over infidelity, hope, and healing around the holiday season. We know the holiday season can be challenging, but when we look upwards and stand in wonder of everything God has done we can find Hope. Rodney and Angela encourage you through this individual song of love, appreciation, and love.. Chapters:. 0:00 Then Sings my Soul. 10:44 Song for the Soul – Then Sings my Soul. 18:43 Prayer. We are so…

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Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship

What is emotional abuse? Unsure when it crosses the line from an injury response to a severe concern? Sign up with Laurie as she sheds light on this vital subject. She will explore what psychological abuse includes, how to recognize it, and when it's time to look for help. Regardless, whether you're the betrayed or the wayward partner, comprehending these behaviors is important for your recovery and moving on. FULL, FREE Post here: – Sign Up With the Healing Library:. – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Adultery:. –…

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Signs That the Unfaithful Partner Is Unsafe in Affair Recovery Work

Are you a betrayed partner reeling from cheating, looking for signs to see if your unfaithful mate is taking actions to be safe? Have you ever wondered about what the markers of security in affair recovery might look like in the very first location? There are indications to try to find that not only create a sense of safety in between partners, but make the unpleasant however necessary recovery procedure that much easier to wade through. Today you'll hear Samuel speak initially to you, the betrayed partner,…

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What the Betrayed Really Needs from the Unfaithful in Affair Recovery: Empathy

If a betrayed partner does not experience or see authentic empathy from their unfaithful partner, the healing efforts of that unfaithful ended up being suspect. "Possibly they are simply attempting to not lose me and/or the household?" Maybe they do not want to change and heal, they just want to not discuss it and proceed?" Those are just a few of the concerns the betrayed ask themselves. Today Samuel shares first hand point of view into what are 'em pathy builders' and what are 'em pathy blockers'…

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5 Ways to Repair Our Self-Image After An Affair

For years, mental health experts have actually worried the need to have a healthy self-image in life. From self-love, to self-actualization, how we see ourselves is a real video game changer, not only in our primary relationships, but likewise in life. Just how much more should our self-image be repaired after the disclosure of extramarital relations? After betrayal trauma enters the image, our lives appear to totally decipher, and we find ourselves looking for any manage to keep in order to merely survive. As we begin to…

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New Survivors’ Blog tomorrow @ 10am! | A Tool for Self-Soothing in Affair Recovery

New Survivors' Blog tomorrow @ 10am!|A Tool for Self-Soothing in Affair Recovery Click the link below for more from our blog! New Survivors' Blog tomorrow @ 10am! | A Tool for Self-Soothing in Affair Recovery Save My Marriage Today!

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5 Ways the Unfaithful Fail at Affair Recovery Work

Today Samuel … – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Cheating:. – What type of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Professional Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library Membership:. – Access 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles and Coach Stories. – Get answers from 1,500+ Expert Q&A Videos. – Talk with others in the personal Recovery Library Forums. " The Recovery Library offered me 24/7 assistance since I could be up at 3am and search for the topic I was struggling with. It likewise assisted as…

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February 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | How Do We Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?

Do you have a burning concern for our extramarital relations experts? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to submit your question to the Specialist Q&A. Every week we film a member of our Scientific Expert Contributors group in the AR Studio answering those concerns. Not all set to take a course? A Recovery Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Expert Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Adultery: – Subscribe to the…

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August 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?

Do you have a burning concern for our infidelity professionals? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend enables you to send your concern to the Specialist Q&A. Every week we film a member of our Medical Professional Factors group in the AR Studio responding to those concerns. Not ready to take a course? A Recovery Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Infidelity: – Sign up for the…

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Diaphragmatic Breathing for Emotional Regulation

In this video, Karen Baker introduces diaphragmatic breathing exercises to manage feelings and promote the vagus nerve. She stresses the importance of breath in getting in touch with the body and managing stress. These workouts target the parasympathetic nerve system, aiding in relaxation and minimizing tension when activated or flooded. Karen demonstrates 3 techniques: 4-7-8 breathing, Ocean Breath (Ujjayi breathing), and Alternate Nostril Breathing. Each exercise is described and practiced. She motivates you to include these methods into your day-to-day regimens for psychological balance and stress relief….

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Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful

Shame – this word brings a lot weight and typically indicates different things to various individuals. Adultery is wrought with Embarassment. I believe embarassment is one of those things that if we can't figure it out, it makes it actually tough to recover from adultery. Research indicates that shame might be one of the most negatively overwhelming emotions a human can experience. It overwhelms our nerve system. It triggers us to mentally flood. And when I state mentally flood, it might take us into fight or flight…

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Stories of Hope Podcast | Episode 2: Kristen & Norman

Join Norman and Kristen as they assess their marital relationship before and after the discovery of Kristen's infidelity. They explain their marriage as doing not have deep interaction and being more like 2 ships passing in the night instead of couple. After Kristen's confession of extramarital relations, Norman felt ambivalent about reconciliation, fighting with feelings of failure, anger and pity. Kristen shares her pain and grief as the wayward partner. They provide valuable insight into the trauma following betrayal, each acknowledging errors made. In spite of this,…

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Harboring Hope Alumni Testimonial

Registration for Harboring Hope opens Wednesday, February 15 @ midday central time! Click on this link for more information: Harboring Hope Alumni Testimonial Save My Marriage Today!

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Songs for the Soul | Freeflowing Finale (S2:E10)

Sign Up With Rodney and Angela for the season finale of "Tunes For the Soul." Enjoy appreciation, development, and inspiring music including Angela's beatboxing! This episode is not only a tribute to their journey however also an invitation to deepen your connection with God through music. Tune in and do not miss this playful and motivating season finale. Chapters: 0:00 Freeflowing Ending 7:30 Songwriting Exercise I. 10:23 Col316 Song. 12:00 Songwriting Exercise II. 14:15 Keep in mind Lot's Other half Tune. 16:10 Last SFTS thanks and motivation!…

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Rebuilding Your Relationship after an Affair: Defense Mechanisms of the Betrayed

Last time in the studio, Samuel spoke with expert therapist and infidelity survivor, Amanda Asproni, on the defense reaction of the unfaithful spouses. Today they continue their interview however shift to defense mechanisms of the betrayed spouse. While the unfaithful fast to utilize these deflections in an effort to reduce blame, shift focus and take the attention off themselves, the betrayed also utilize their own defense mechanisms. How they use them is a bit different and may come from a various state of mind than the unfaithful,…

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Healthy Heart, Heathy Mind: Discussing Healthy Coping and Connecting with Others

Woven into our basic makeup is the desire and need to "do life together". By getting in touch with others – sharing freely, being sincere, and not reducing our battles, we develop healthy stress coping mechanisms that enable us to leave our own heads and keep our hearts and minds healthy. – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Adultery: – What type of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Professional Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library Membership:. – Access 3,000+ Q&A Videos,…

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Harboring Hope Course Preview | Week 11 – Suffering

For additional information about Harboring Hope click on this link: Despite whether the unfaithful spouse is supportive, unsupportive, or gone, we desire you to feel hope once again. Whole again. House once again. Harboring Hope is specifically created for betrayed spouses by expert therapists who are also betrayed spouses. We know the pain. We have existed. We want you to understand that you are not alone, you are not insane, and you are not predestined to grieve permanently. Harboring Hope can help you discover what you need…

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New blog tomorrow @ 10am! | How Do I Get My Betrayed Partner to Trust Me Again after Infidelity?

Visit for more! New blog tomorrow @ 10am! | How Do I Get My Betrayed Partner to Trust Me Again after Infidelity? Save My Marriage Today!

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Community – Necessary for Your Health. Necessary for Your Healing.

People are social creatures, deeply wired for neighborhood and connection. However, when traumatized, our brains attempt to persuade us to avoid the really things we need for recovery. Social assistance is critical to health and well-being, as various studies have actually revealed. A life partner, household, community, and robust social media are substantial predictors of health and longevity. Recuperating from trauma is challenging, and if your brain perceives you to be alone, it has to budget your minimal metabolic resources in a different way, making recovery longer…

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How to Move from Transmitting Your Pain to Transforming Your Pain after an Affair

Among my preferred authors, Richard Rhor, mentions over and over again in his works that we can select to 'send our discomfort … or transform our discomfort.' I have actually seen me at my worst, and I can be an expert at sending my discomfort to buddies, household, innocent onlookers, umpires, you name it. I've also experienced the abundant and long lasting feeling when I have had the ability to see my own inner discomfort transformed into a vessel to help others heal. When we rave at…

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Unveiling Infidelity: Who to Tell?

Kristen shares her experience as the wayward spouse, revealing her affair to everyone in their social circle as a way of managing guilt and looking for recognition. Nevertheless, she acknowledges this was a defense mechanism, acknowledging the significance of discretion and selective sharing. While there is a restorative value in sharing your struggles for both the stubborn and the hurt spouse, couples need to reflect on their technique to dealing with the disclosure of adultery, emphasizing the value of mindful factor to consider of whom to confide…

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EMS Online | Online Course For Couples To Heal After Infidelity

Registration readily available here: affairrecovery.com/product/ems-online Fed up with not having a comprehensive strategy to heal after infidelity? This course walks you through the crucial steps needed to address the adultery and reconnect as a couple. "EMS" Online represents Emergency Marital Seminar Online. Our methodology has actually been sharpened over years of experience specifically focusing on this field. In advance, it is very important to understand that we won't shame the unfaithful spouse nor blame the betrayed spouse. This is a safe place for both of you to…

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Guided Meditation for Coping with Betrayal Trauma

Experiencing cheating is an exceptionally disconcerting experience, resulting in what is called betrayal trauma, and the dysregulation of our feelings. It is very important to learn how to manage or regulate these extreme feelings. This video provides an assisted meditation to assist you cope and find peace. – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Extramarital Relations: – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Specialist Articles & Videos:. Get a Recovery Library Membership:. – Gain access to 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles…

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Songs for the Soul | Rick Reynolds (S2:E2)

Find hope and healing in the statement and music of an inspiring couple, Rodney & Angela, as Rick Reynolds signs up with the discussion with scientific links between singing and recovery from cheating. Chapters: 0:00 Rick Reynolds 18:39 Tunes for the Soul – His Eye Is On The Sparrow// My Heavenly Dad Supervised Me – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Infidelity: – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Specialist Articles & Videos:. Get a Recovery Library Subscription:. – Access…

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What Works in Healing Infidelity?

LINK TO STUDY: The consequences of injury can leave us in need of professional aid, yet sometimes the aid we look for falls miserably brief. Comprehending why this takes place is pivotal to enhancing the total effectiveness of treatment. A couple of years earlier, my buddy, Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth, pioneered research in this location, and we are proudly continuing her work. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Adultery: – Subscribe to the AffairRecovery.com newsletter article of the…

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Shame: The Two Sides of the Coin – Side 2: The Betrayed Spouse

In this post, I share my journey as an unfaithful spouse, and explore the complex feelings of embarassment that afflict both celebrations in the consequences of an affair. For the betrayed, your sense of self-regard and trust are shattered. You may be experiencing your own sensations of pity and pestered with questions: "Why me? What could I have done differently?" I will not excuse any actions by the unfaithful. During this hard time, be reminded that your partner's cheating is not a reflection of your inadequacy, but…

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How Do You Heal and Handle the Losses Associated with Infidelity?

When couples try to heal from cheating or dependency, they're faced with lots of shocking realities that can make or break both their own healing and the relationship. Today Samuel points a way through the smoke and malaise of denial and loss to clearness, guts and wish for the future. – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Extramarital Relations:. – What sort of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Specialist Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library Membership:. – Access 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles and…

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EMS Online Registration Opens January 11 at Noon Central Time!

For additional information, visit: EMS Online Registration Opens January 11 at Noon Central Time! Save My Marriage Today!

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Guided Meditation for Compassion, Anxiety, and Self-Kindness

Experiencing betrayal is a deeply traumatic experience. It can exceptionally impact our well-being, making empathy for others, and ourselves seem out of reach. Discovering a path back to peace and empathy is necessary.. Sign up with Karen for a relaxing meditation focused on opening your heart and promoting self-compassion and empathy for others. Her approach helps you to connect with your sensations and gently acknowledge your own stress and anxieties and injures, making a way for a deeper understanding and generosity towards yourself and others.. Whether you…

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Your Opportunity to Change

Whether you are the stubborn or the hurt spouse, know that you are not alone in this journey, and you have the chance to choose to eventually become better, not bitter. Sign up with veteran adultery survivor Mickey today, as he motivates those walking the winding path towards recovery. – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Infidelity:. – What type of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Specialist Articles & Videos:. Get a Healing Library Membership:. – Gain access to 3,000+ Q&A Videos,…

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How Do I Get My Betrayed Partner to Trust Me Again after Infidelity?

Today you'll hear Samuel share time checked insight into how the unfaithful can ultimately restore trust and security with their betrayed partner: – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Cheating:. – What kind of affair was it? Take the FREE Affair Analyzer:. – FREE Specialist Articles & Videos:. Get a Recovery Library Subscription:. – Access 3,000+ Q&A Videos, Articles and Mentor Stories. – Get the answer from 1,500+ Professional Q&A Videos. – Talk with others in the personal Healing Library Forums. " The Recovery Library gave me…

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Healing After an Affair or Addiction: Helping a Couple Move From Transaction to Transformation

It's quite simple for couples to approach life, marital relationship and even repair after extramarital relations with a transactional technique. Yet, this transactional approach to repair work never ever causes a transformative experience, typically leading to a 'go along to get along' mentality. When couples hit this point, restoration is incredibly challenging and seems exceptionally elusive. A gratifying repair work procedure should move from transaction i.e. "you do this, I do this and we make this work, void of delight and excitement." Couple who remain in a…

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Surviving Infidelity Series: Why Managing Your Partner’s Repair Work Doesn’t Work

For couples who are trying to heal after an affair, it's a typical battle that a person partner feels the need to manage the other's healing or repair work. Possibly this sounds familiar: "Are you checking out? Did you go to therapy? Did you see that post I sent you? Did you talk to your responsibility partner today? Did you see that new video?" While a regular temptation, the outcome is generally immense frustration and disconnection by both parties, not to discuss a feeling of being mothered…

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Really Hard Times Will Not Last

In life, tough times occur. The old adage is that they frequently can be found in threes. But with affair healing, tough times and minutes come more often than that. How do you handle days that are not excellent? We understand when resolving adultery that difficult times and not so terrific days are often continuously, however we can overcome them. When we take the critical actions required in healing work the difficult days will become less and less while equipping us to better handle the hard moments….

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New Survivors’ Blog Tomorrow! | 5 Ways the Unfaithful Fail at Affair Recovery Work

Click on this link for more: New Survivors' Blog Tomorrow! | 5 Ways the Unfaithful Fail at Affair Recovery Work Save My Marriage Today!

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Welcoming Hope Rising 2022 Session Speaker, Rusty Atkinson!

Click the link listed below to acquire your ticket! After experiencing betrayal, Rusty felt definitely ravaged and squashed. He thought that his life was over and nothing that he understood to be real appeared real. A good friend that had actually remained in his very same shoes a couple of years prior to pointed him to Leslie Hardie and Affair Healing. Through this difficult season, he began to see that there was light at the end of the tunnel. Utilizing the tools that he discovered in the…

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September 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | How Do You Determine the Value of What Was Lost?

Do you have a burning question for our cheating specialists? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to send your question to the Specialist Q&A. Each week we film a member of our Scientific Professional Contributors team in the AR Studio addressing those concerns. Not prepared to take a course? A Healing Library Subscription includes access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Infidelity: – Subscribe to the AffairRecovery.com…

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October 2022 Favorite Expert Q&A | What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek?

Do you have a burning concern for our adultery professionals? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend enables you to send your question to the Professional Q&A. Every week we movie a member of our Clinical Expert Contributors team in the AR Studio answering those questions. Not all set to take a course? A Healing Library Membership includes access to over 3,000 Expert Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Surviving Cheating: – Sign up for the AffairRecovery.com…

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Signs That the Unfaithful Partner is Unsafe | New Survivors’ Blog tomorrow @ 10am!

Spouses frequently bask when their mate begins recovery work after an affair. However what are some signs that the unfaithful partner could be hazardous? Click link listed below for more! Signs That the Unfaithful Partner is Unsafe | New Survivors' Blog tomorrow @ 10am! Save My Marriage Today!

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Songs for the Soul | Way Maker (S1:E4)

Are you searching for a way out of misery and despondence? Do you only see the ruins of infidelity, activates, tips, and limitless marathoning all night? After discovery or disclosure of marital betrayal, your whole world can appear so complicated, leaving you wondering what is genuine and what is not. Instead of taking a look around, attempt looking up. God is the keeper of all truth. He is the Way Maker, Miracle Worker, Promise Keeper, Light in the Darkness. Look to Him as your God – that…

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New Survivors’ Blog “4 Myths Surrounding Healing From Infidelity” Tomorrow @ 10am!

New Survivors' Blog "4 Myths Surrounding Healing From Infidelity" Tomorrow @ 10am! Save My Marriage Today!

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June 2024 Favorite Expert Q&A | What Does Healthy Transparency Look Like in Recovery?

Do you have a burning question for our adultery experts? Taking part in our online courses or EMS Weekend allows you to submit your question to the Professional Q&A. Weekly we movie a member of our Scientific Professional Factors group in the AR Studio responding to those concerns. Not all set to take a course? A Recovery Library Membership consists of access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Adultery: – Register for the AffairRecovery.com newsletter…

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Signs the Unfaithful Is Growing, Healing & Doing Affair Recovery Work

When a partner or partner is serious about fixing the damage of their affair or dependency on their enjoyed ones, the easy truth is, you can see it. You can feel it in their voice, you see it in their demeanor and you notice it in their general method to healing work. However what are those indicating indications and where can you discover them? Today Samuel shares simply a few however palatable indications that the unfaithful is growing, healing and actually doing work to recover the damage…

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July 2023 Favorite Expert Q&A | Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?

Do you have a burning question for our adultery professionals? Taking part in our online courses or EMS Weekend permits you to send your concern to the Specialist Q&A. Weekly we movie a member of our Scientific Expert Contributors group in the AR Studio responding to those concerns. Not all set to take a course? A Recovery Library Subscription includes access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Join the Recovery Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Enduring Cheating: – Subscribe to the AffairRecovery.com newsletter short…

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April 2022 Favorite Expert Q&A | How Do I Get Past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again?

Do you have a burning question for our adultery specialists? Participating in our online courses or EMS Weekend enables you to submit your concern to the Expert Q&A. Weekly we film a member of our Medical Expert Factors team in the AR Studio responding to those concerns. Not ready to take a course? A Healing Library Subscription consists of access to over 3,000 Professional Articles and Q&A Videos. – Sign Up With the Healing Library: – FREE Bootcamp for Making It Through Extramarital Relations: – Sign up…

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What Type of Work Does It Takes to Heal? | New Survivors’ Blog out tomorrow!

Tomorrow Samuel shares examples of what this type of work appears like, and what is required to recover from life-altering injury like adultery and/or dependency. What Type of Work Does It Takes to Heal? | New Survivors' Blog out tomorrow! Save My Marriage Today!

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