Is the Unfaithful Partner Repairable?

It's a concern the betrayed partner finds themselves asking time and time again: Is my unfaithful partner repairable? What betrayed partner would not ask this concern? While every scenario is different, the answer can be important to the hope of the betrayed and the self-esteem of the unfaithful. Today you'll hear share pointed however compassionate markers on how to inform if the unfaithful partner is repairable or not. Feel confident, for those who are dedicated to recovery and dedicated to doing the work required to recover themselves, recovery and personal improvement are within reach.

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is an adultery survivor and is among numerous contributors to Affair Recovery's Survivors' Blog site,. He took part in Affair Recovery's courses developed by creator and adultery expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW. After discovering recovery, hope, and new life, wishes to share his journey and what has to provide with others so they too can discover hope and recovery.

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  1. I have struggled since I was a teen with porn addiction. For some reason my wife has stayed with me for 30 years. This last disclosure/blowup made a change in me. I hope I am repairable. I believe I am repairable. I am done hurting her.

    1. Get help from an accountability coach or group, get back to God if you have have fallen away, find a counselor. Own responsibility and find a way to fix yourself. God bless and it’s hard, I know. Lookup porn addiction counseling – it exists, but I didn’t know, or maybe didn’t want to know!

  2. Thank you. If only my narc husband would have this epiphany. It’s what I’ve been praying, hoping, and waiting for. But, he won’t. He won’t even bother to watch these videos. Instead, he’s a cruel, heartless, and callous demon who refuses to accept any responsibility or follow through on anything he’s promised me he would do. In the meantime, I’m stuck because I’m tethered and unable to escape this hell, despite all my countless efforts to get out. Lord, please do something! If it’s not Your Will, or your son is unrepairable because of his own selfish choices, then please give me a way out. Today. Please!! I’ve been crying out to you for over 11 years. I can’t stand the pain a n y m o r e. Please don’t forsake me Lord! If this is going to be my life, I don’t want to live.

    1. Kat Im so sorry. I can relate to your pain and can only imagine 11 years . I’ve prayed the same things and wrestle with the same thoughts the last 4 years. My therapist told me that because of the trauma we’ve experienced, we are now processing everything in life through the hurt version of ourselves leaving us unable to live. Buts thats not Kat or Nick. Im not a dead, negative angry depressed person. Thats not who God says we are. I have 2 little children and am always alone with them. The enemy is trying to destroy us all and rob us of life. “what can man do to me?” ” When I am afraid, I will trust in you.” This valley/cross is meant to change us for the good, making us more like Christ…even though all around looks and feels like hell. It helps me when I reflect on what Jesus did for us: He was perfect, yet rejected and torn to shreds by his own. Yet, he still chose to allow himself to be annihilated and die… so that I might live. If we only believed that His grace is real and enough and that the greatest blessing on earth is that we are saved. Its greater than our temporary life on this evil planet.

  3. Own your faults and mistakes unfaithful spouses! If you do, grace and mercy will have a chance to flow your way. If not, it will just be pain, misery, and chaos and death. Consider their personal emotional cost as they consider reconciliation and pay them back with total ownership and repentance or suffer the consequences.

  4. How do we get them to stop trying to heal us. Mine doesn’t do his work, work through his past, follow through on things he needs to do daily. He is always looking at and asking for stuff to heal me. I am healed enough to move on. He doesn’t understand he is losing me because he is not healing himself.

  5. She won’t change. She acts as if she’s done no wrong. She actually told me its my fault for her cheating. That still messes with my mind

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