Are Paul's assumptions about couples true? Questions to TMF Marital Relationship Counselors
Thank you! I have actually already found out quite a bit from the course but I do have a follow-up set of. Concerns. No reasons just attempting to line up on expectations and wish to clarify whether this affects the lessons at all.
1. Paul makes the assumption that guys teach their partners to be aggressive I make the comment. It's not constantly real however it's typically true. In my case, that's just merely false. I am not denying that I have not responded aggressively at times but my other half was relatively aggressive early on. If she can be so can I, it's not my fault and she definitely didn't learn it from me.
I'm not rejecting that I have not reacted strongly at times never ever react strongly and we teach you how to never ever but my better half was relatively aggressive early on. And she definitely didn't learn it from me. Women can be just as aggressive as men if not more so. So it appears to me this is an underlying presumption throughout all the material. Paul dismisses abuse in among his videos using the example of our children kicking us yet we dismiss it. So anyway, yes I utilize this example of our kids kicking us yet we dismiss it. I comprehend his point here but I believe abuse has numerous layers and levels for example early on our marital relationship, my spouse physically struck me. She stopped that given that we got her household involved but she still continues to yield viciously at me at times to the point she frightens the kids. This is distressing for the kids big deal not so much for me however for them it's various. and I do not think Paul addresses kids' experiences in his videos I'm not going to get into all her madness however I do want to make certain I articulate my experience to see whether these particular scenarios have actually been thought about as Paul developed this content.
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