On the path of starting to heal a relationship after infidelity, often in the middle of a fight, a partner or partner might not know what they require in that minute. They do not understand if they require responses, comfort, instructions, or to have their hand held. Science says it takes 1/200th of a 2nd for the betrayed spouse to flood mentally. The triggers and onslaught of feelings can come on so rapidly, that a partner can be lost for comprehending what they need. Get in the unfaithful, maybe really trying to help the betrayed, however clueless on how to support them in their discomfort or hurt. They try X; it fails miserably. They try Y; it goes from bad to even worse. It can leave both parties reeling in despair, questioning if there is any practical intend to heal. Today Samuel shares a tool he learned in his own therapy session that can assist both partners heal, while avoiding another from feeling deserted in the middle of a fight. While it can seem hopeless and frustrating, there are useful tools for those who are suffering the impacts of extramarital relations to find peace and comfort, even in the middle of gut-wrenching pain.
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Samuel is a cheating survivor and is one of numerous factors to Affair Recovery's Survivors' Blog,. He participated in Affair Recovery's courses developed by founder and extramarital relations specialist Rick Reynolds, LCSW. After finding recovery, hope, and new life, Samuel wishes to share his journey and what AffairRecovery.com has to provide with others so they too can find hope and healing.
Thank you for another great video. Sometimes when we get into heated discussions I ask my wife “what would Samuel say?” Sometimes it helps, sometimes I have to duck lol
I agree with what youve said, but not gonna lie, as a betrayed, some of what you said pissed me off. The patience part, yeah, that sounds great, it will take time to heal, but the unfaithful didn’t give us any “time” before they ripped our world apart!!