Dave & Ashley describe how often you need to be making love, and they're providing you a genuine response. They describe why they think when a week is the bare minimum that a couple must have sex.
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Lust in all its forms, even for our Spouse is the opposite of intimacy. God should be telling couples when to have sex. It’s His gift to them and He knows what’s best for each couple. There are scriptures that state couples should set aside a time to worship God then come back together strengthened and brought closer by the Lord. (This happens WITHOUT any sex at all). Sex is NOT more important than other intimate acts couples have like just talking or looking into each other’s eyes. All of it is as the Bible calls it “submitting to one another”. Not with holding yourself from each other means do not with hold your heart and minds as well as your bodies
Happily married man for 20+ years. Let sex happen naturally. And spontaneous sex is the best. Putting a number on things, planning — OK. I understand why sometimes this is required — can kill the mood by adding undue pressure and expectation. My wife and I will always say something like, “Really horny now. Let’s see where I am later.” Because it’s ok for the mood to ebb and flow. It’s normal to be in the mood at noon then not at 9p. So go with the flow and just have fun. And I do agree that 1-2x a week — even if it’s not actual intercourse — is ideal. And if one person’s drive is stronger than the other’s, or one person wants it more at certain times and seasons, then just be there for them. It doesn’t always have to be a mutual want; it doesn’t always have to be intercourse. It’s not all about you. But it’s always fun to engage and take care of the other’s needs. And to echo: the best sex is spontaneous sex. And the best sex is not being in the mood but going along and, oh my — now you’re revved up. I’ve lost count how many times either one of us wasn’t in the mood for any number of reasons — usually just tired — but we had fun, no expectations, making out, and bam — it turns into am amazing time. And after 20 years, it is, yes, still an amazing time. Started out great and has only gotten better year after year. God really knew what He was doing with sex between a husband and wife.
Let’s go Jesus!