Dr. Paul offers us basic concepts to assist in saving a marriage that is on the verge of divorce. Remember, simple and easy are not the exact same thing. These 3 principles consist of being grateful for your marriage and partner so listen up.
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How To Save Marriage On The Brink Of Divorce
Thank you for these.. Truly helpful. I love how you simplify and bullet-point steps—GREAT!! I also like this, because all of these steps are “needy” behavior, they’re more subdued and subtle.
you are welcome.
It is currently 6am and I needed to stumble across this video. I am 100% committed to fixing my marriage. I have already made a list of things I need to work on myself to save my marriage and ready to start day one today! Hoping I can do this!
@Alex N. Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together????
Keep praying for eachother’s salvation. And your kid’s salvation also.
@Shannon Mcclary-Burton only Jesus can give us salvation. Everything else is demonic
SierraSiennaSavahnaDesertNightSky 1985 But what do you do when your spouse is “saved,” but won’t admit faults or express any humility? Guilt trips, gaslighting, manipulation, you name it.
@Morning Song so difficult… no easy answers but get help! for yourself. People to help you find and hold onto TRUTH
Thank you very much for this video. I’ve been banging my head off of the 4 horseman and wondering why we are miserable. I am going to do this starting tomorrow as I am about to go to bed. I cannot say thank you enough!
hayley wright, Come back and watch the video as you start this new journey. You can do it.
this advice is absolute gold! thank you. practical and true… if you have a spiritual practice this should be easy to embrace… but still hard to consistently practice, but wow … thank you for these guidelines… it’s so good to know the research has been done and these are the workable tools… thanks
magildeny, it helps so much when we are able to add another tool or develop the skill needed to help navigate our relationships.
Tried it 1 day and it worked. I can’t believe it was my fault all along. I shall continue the experiment and hopefully turn this relationship around. Great video thanks x
@Hannah Baxter Update…?
@Community Cat Advocate still together, I could do with rewatching this video though as I went back to my old ways pretty fast!
Really needed to see this. I love my husband so much and I want to do everything I can to help things between us. Thank you so much!
@Katessa Parker Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together????
@Leoncia Ciarra im afraid its over for us but wish you the best
Awesome advice. Only works if both parties are open to it. You cannot change people’s mind. As many people value marriage who are married, there are equal or more people in marriage that don’t value marriages.
Thanks for watching and for the thoughtful comment, J Neptune. I agree with your statement that it works if both parties are open to it. The one about changing people’s mind… I personally would tweak that just a bit: you cannot force someone to change their mind, however you can influence them to change their mind. As a clinical psychologist I have seen people change, their marriage be saved from divorce, and they thrive together.
Live On Purpose TV. True that
I love this video SO MUCH. I really appreciate you taking the time to help hurting families. I can’t say thank you enough. I am about to take the challenge!!
@steven subra Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together????
I am grateful for YOU and the fact that you make these wonderful videos to help people out there! Thank you! My husband and I have been through a LOT, and though we may not be on the brink of divorce, I feel that if neither of us try, we definitely could be. When I try, he tries. So when I see videos like this and my attitude changes, it changes the whole dynamic… so THANK YOU!! This is a great video!
tashball, it is so easy to get comfortable and forget that we have a part in the success of a relationship.
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Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together????
I am really in need of this.
Have a 3 yrs old daughter and a 6 months old son.
My family and I were separated due to the pandemic lock down between Singapore and Malaysia. Where I used to travel between countries daily.
I’m currently in Singapore, working and bringing the bread to home.
My wife has signal for a divorce.
God give me chance to find this motivation video.
God give me a wake up call.
Thank you Paul
You are welcome, Ryan Yong. Thank you for watching – honored to be on your team. We have more for you on our “How to Fix a Marriage that’s been Damaged” playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLq2mRDkHEBPD7ZFUy4BGprDhRq8tDD2yg, as well as the Positive Relationship Resources playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLq2mRDkHEBPA410uJ9woXx9B9WiPyM7fX
Just watched your video, and i’m going to start my 5 day experiment,a lot of what you said made soooo much sense, he’s been complaining about those specific things but didn’t believe him. Sometimes hearing it from someone else point if view helps to open your eyes and mind a little more. Thank you. Will post updates during my 5 days.
Queen BB, awsome, glad you are giving it a go.
I’m literally freaking out I don’t want to lose my wife and family…thank you so much!!!! I’m
Going to try this. Wish me luck!
I got my ex wife back with the help of someone who also solve my relationship problem❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have been emotionally abusive to my spouse for the greater part of our 15 year marriage. I had a turn in my life a month ago and I’m committed to bettering myself. I love her dearly and I don’t want to lose her.
It’ll bring you to your knees, if not totally destroy you… embrace the challenge & find a way to win
This is so meaningful. I’m thankful to find this today. More than words can say.
S Melograno, I am glad you are part of our community.
This was so good!!! We were there and went to therapy but like you said after time we kept reflecting on the past! I wanted to know how to move forward. It was all my feelings that were shut off it’s the worst feeling. Regardless I know you can get those back and marriages can go through that. It’s worth the fight. This is what I was looking for. Thank you! God bless!
Cassie Gardner, thank you, it is worth the fight. Good luck.
@Live On Purpose TV absolutley!! Thank you!!
On a binge! Dr. Paul is simply amazing. Love honest and helpful people.
Edit after watching this video:
OMG! this sounds tough! While taking notes I quickly noticed that I’ve done all the “Give,Send,Serve” for most of my relationship and now I just feel exhausted. But I’m willing to give it 5 more days coupled with the 95:5 Focus and 25:5 Gratitude ratios.
Wish me luck – if anything I think this will help me rid myself of resentment.
I wish you the best, Julie.
How did it go?
@Koketso Sibongiseni Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together????
@Koketso Sibongiseni Gained insight, confidance, regained my self-respect. I got to know me and love me with all the good and not so good parts.
My kids are much happier. cuz I am more open and in a better mood. They’ve really shown the most change.
Husband is still trying to figure himself out. I’m overall happy with myself he is generally happy. Best part – I’m not afraid to loose him. Feels great. Some ppl just take a bit longer to learn the lesson.
Thanks for asking.