Does emotional distance cause dispute in your marriage? Mark and Grace discuss what triggers psychological distance in marital relationship and how to assist an emotionally remote partner.
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Something you try to talk about but your spouse doesn’t want to hear it. He wants me to pretend the problems aren’t there and I should just continue treating him like he’s the perfect husband that hasn’t done anything to tear my heart out. He doesn’t want to hear my day to day conversation, how do I get him to talk about how he’s hurt me. I forgave him and he turned around and did it again. I forgave him again but he doesn’t want to talk about how to stop what’s hurting me. He seems to think that he can fix it on his own. I still need to work thru it and know we’ve come to a solution that will work and save our marriage
From my experience you can only work it out between you and God and let God work on that person. Pray that his heart soften and ears open and that your husband wants to speak with God and then you. But even then, we can’t give a laundry list of all their wrongs. You say you have forgiven but if so, it doesn’t exist anymore, therefore it shouldn’t hurt anymore. God doesn’t hold things He has forgiven us for over our head. It can be tricky to navigate through out emotions and realize we really are clinging to those hurts. Look up “love is..” in the Bible.
God can and will use all, even those hurts, for our good and His glory. Trust me, I’m just a few steps ahead in that walk..this can be said of ANY type of relationship.
It sounds like he may have an undiagnosed addiction. Yes, you can pray. But, it is not wrong to hold him accountable for his commitment and vows to you. God asks us to hold our Christian brothers and sisters accountable. Keep asking for what you need! You deserve to be loved, cared for and respected. Husbands should treat their wives the way Jesus treated the church and gave His life for it. If your husband is not willing to do that, he needs to work on himself, on healing your heart and on the marriage. You can forgive but if he has not done the work to heal your heart, your marriage will never heal and get better. I pray for healing for your heart and your husband and your marriage!
I promise you are not alone!!!!!!! I’m on my second marriage. The first lasted 25 yrs., adultery broke that one. My second marriage was one year ago. I’m finding very very very mind blowing similarities with my second husband NOT wanting to discuss what’s on my heart. It starts WWIII if I share my heart. I close up and only live for the LORD. The intimacy is there but I have a difficult time emotionally connecting. Help, please.
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Help ! I’m stuck, my husband first isn’t a believer he’s passive and does not speak lol ( thats a me pulling my hair laughing) . I’m very verbal i want to talk about the stuff that is going on and why and where I’m emotionally disconnected and he’s not and thats frustrating and its coming out in ugly ways more resentment more underling anger I’m if anything more distant. And I’m beating myself up because I feel like I’m disappointing God .
First, we should pray that he seeks God and finds Him. Not for your benefit but for his own.
Secondly, we have this romanticized idea that our husband’s are our therapist, they are not. They have their own things they are dealing with. I was the same way, so I’m coming from a place of love and from the comfort I received in my season of learning in this area. It was brutal because it felt as though my husband did NOT care at all, but in fact, in my pain, I sought the Lord and He healed me, as only He can do from needing that validation or conversation.
What it all comes down to is are we willing to sacrifice for our loved one? God has done some BIG work in my life and my husband has had to endure a lot of emotions from me and just allowing me to be, in these moment that God is “pruning me and planting new seed”. The season has changed now, my husband is going through some things and it’s MY turn to just allow him to be. Praying on his behalf that he remembers to seek God so God can work and not be consumed by the pain/frustration he is feeling. He is the only way we TRULY heal. He does want us to have to have marriages and wonderful love, but love is defined differently by God, than what we see in this world and its WAY more beautiful.
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Strong believer in the love languages BUT we have to seek God to show us how to do that, not try on our own, He WILL show you how to love your spouse. We just pray for that knowledge and that God’s will be done for our marriage.
Focus on the end goal, not the problem.