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I agree with almost all except boundaries are only for yourself. Not standing for infidelity or physical abuse would be some boundaries.
I don’t believe in divorce is one of mine. That doesn’t mean my wife can’t divorce me, but I would never leave her.
So, consequences to boundary breaking? Yes, in the sense that everything has consequences. Not filling wife’s car with gas comes with consequence of her needing gas tomorrow. She could chose to ignore what I did or not and there would be a consequence to that choice, and so on.
In your example of your husband going to flight school. You could choose to completely ignore and shut him out in his pursuit. He can’t make you do anything. But if he had a boundary of not wanting to be in an emotionally abusive one sided marriage, he could separate or file divorce. It would be him saying he won’t allow himself to be treated a certain way. You would still be free to make your decision.
I would agree, boundaries in a marriage have always sounded wrong. Almost like there was a division being created from something God has joined together. I can see how boundaries might be in place while one is a follower of Jesus and the other is not. But each person should seek peace and that requires freedom.
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I set boundries for myself 20 years ago when I started dating my wife. The boundries are, and still are this: I never talk to any women outside of a professional setting EVER. And if I do talk to women I act as if she’s standing beside me. She never set these boundries and she ended up having an affair with my daughters archery coach last year.