Relationship problems? There's excellent news. These revolutionary marital relationship counseling methods can conserve your marital relationship and improve every relationship in your life.
Relationship specialists and married couple Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt are here to help. In this episode, they share the marriage therapy and relationship suggestions they've taught to thousands of couples through individual counseling and workshops. These strategies will not only lead to better, healthier relationships– they can recover the world.
Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt are partners in life and work. Together, they have written over 10 books of marital relationship advice, including 3 New York Times bestsellers, and the mega hit "Getting The Love You Desire." Harville and Helen co-created Imago Relationship Treatment. Harville is a couple's therapist, educator, and medical trainer with over 40 years experience. He's been on The Oprah Winfrey Program 18 times. Helen was set up in the Women's Hall Of Fame for her management in the global ladies's movement. Not just have they been married for 30 years, but they also know how to save marital relationships and assist couples construct the relationship of their dreams based upon mutual respect and much deeper communication.
Bickering with your partner and unlimited fights with your colleagues isn't just a sign of one unhealthy relationship. It's an issue with our culture.
Unfavorable relationships have big long-term effect on society …
* 100% of individuals in an unfavorable relationship have a greater threat of heart death.
* Individuals in damaged marital relationships are 60% less efficient.
* Negativity in relationships is one of the contributing aspects to at least 9 significant social problems– everything from compound addiction to violence and crime.
EVERYONE needs to view this amazing interview and discover these life-changing– and surprisingly easy– interaction methods that'll change your relationships and your life.
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Marie is such a good listener. So nice to have a host that lets the guest talk without trying to be the guest.
thanks for mentioning that – I was just about to comment it too! she gives her guests enough space!
For realllllll!!!!
Yes Oprah has a lot to learn from Marie
Prior to this video, i was reading my bible and fell upon 2 corinthians 12 concentrating on the verses on love. I prayed to Elohim asking to learn how to love. And this notifcation came up. This has renewed me. Thank you.
@Gerald Hinteregger I’m trying so hard to hear from God whether to stay or leave a 20 year marriage. I’ve been fasting and praying. Maybe my heart is not fully open to hear but I so long too. One day I feel his leading me to stay. And the next day I want to go
Amen
I’ve been reading Harville and Helen for many, many years. Helen is SO darling–just love her! The Imago dialog is magical and common sense. My husband came to our relationship with a ton of relationship work behind him. Even so, using Imago dialoguing with one another was transformative. We’ve gotten lax about this lately so thank you so much for featuring Harville and Helen on your show–their work has been critical in our marriage. I always felt defensive and in counseling, this was pointed out to me. Using Imago has helped me to let go of the feeling of defensiveness and for my husband to adjust his more hard-line attitude and perceptions. We really do all want to be known … as Helen says, understood. This long interview was amazing-thank you Marie!!
This is such an amazing episode and I see it changing the world. Being present to each other is the solution, not figuring out a solution. That was a big take away.
Probably the most profound interview to date Marie – thank you so much for sharing.
Hi Marie,
Always enjoy your interviews, and this one in particular. We have been holding “Getting The Love You Want” workshops in NYC for the last 5 years and owe so much to the work of Harville & Helen. We too would not be where we are had it not been for bringing the Imago Dialogue into our lives. Wonder and curiosity now are our relationship foundation. We are always humbled by the transformation of a couple that can become vulnerable and learn to hold space for each other over the course of a weekend. Thank you for sharing this video and all that you do to share your path.
Much love and respect,
Christine Petrik & David Green
Dear Marie,
I love to see how emotional you get while talking about what helped your relationship. It’s so clear how thankful you are for this and it makes me happy to see your true colors through this conversation. Please stay as you are, you’re an awesome person! ❤
I came out of a controlling marriage last year (25 years) and am determined if I ever date again I will have a different relationship. I have loved this video and have been furiously taking notes!!! Thank you for sharing their amazing expertise!!
Religion is a dead thing. Spirituality is alive.
All religion boils down to “because it says right here.” Dead words on a dead page.
Spirituality is connecting with Creator in your heart and being able to discern truth or lies read on any page with Great Spirit.
Your “religion” is nothing but words you swallow whole whether they make a lick of sense or not. There’s no connection to Creator ~ just connection to words/rules on a dead page written by dead men.
I love how Marie is such a good listener. Great message from you three. Love it.
Loved the video, so downloaded some of their books the other night and my partner and I read it together. Agreed we are going to try the exercises. So happy! After 9 years in our relationship, but only now deciding to make the marriage our priority in life.
“I just love that I’m married to this man…” Awww melts my heart!
There is so much marriage advice out there! The problem is you need two people willing to work on it and be committed to getting better. One cannot change a marriage. If you’re married to someone who will not commit to getting better at communicating and making the marriage better, you either suck it up or leave…
I’m@Riverz Wyte
@Simon Soffo no
True
Soo true. It should be both wanting it to work
Need a relationship adjustment? Use these quick links to catch the highlights:
7:58 — The 3-step dialogue process that’ll work magic in your relationship.
17:39 — Why learning to talk about a problem actually solves the problem.
25:14 — The simple (but not easy!) path to success in a relationship.
28:25 — Where good relationships go wrong & how to get back on track.
37:35 — How to create a “conscious partnership” — and why it matters.
41:11 — The powerful mindset shift that’ll change your relationship overnight.
43:25 — Why negative relationships are literally killing you, and how to stop it.
What’s next? Watch this playlist to solve any relationship drama: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAxUz0wM51b-SUQr2len6GIW-Ep_yqz8m
Thanks for this interview. Most informative & interesting. I think it can work not only in marriage but in our everyday relationships, such as with our son, grandson, siblings, etc. Thank you to the 3 of you who cared enough to present it to us, (me). Will check the links you kindly offered!!!
Yes love ya ll
In the act of the very first moments they start speaking you get the entire summation: “do you want to start?” /“ You coined the term”…mutual respect
Oh my gosh this quote: “you do the best you can… while I’m gonna be myself” This really hit me hard. Isn’t this what we often do in the relationship?
Kudos to you Marie for being a great interviewer and allowing your guests to speak freely. I am a therapist who works with women in struggling marriage / long term relationships and the piece that really hit home for me was “the healthy couple is the upriver connection that prevents downriver cleanup” – so, so true! Thanks for this video I am sure it is extremely impactful for so many!
I love a lot of the points mentioned here.. on listening, repeating back, mirroring, and compassionate understanding of two people and the space between and how interconnected relationships are with everything… But like I said, ever since she mentioned “she was high society and he wasn’t and she had to fix him..” I felt like they (Marie & Helen) we’re kinda laughing at him and if you know Alison Armstrong’s work, that’s emasculating and kind of cruel too… I felt bad for the guy. He handled it like a champ though and continued to show his intelligence and even complimented his wife. I imagine if he publicly shared his wife’s short comings or what bothered him about her in public she would be be so tolerating or accepting.
I did notice that… one more thing she said about he taking credit of other people’s work, he crossing his legs after some topics.. people need to not hurt people!
I didn’t understand it that way. I think when she said that she was talking about how wrong she was about her mindset in judging him and trying to change him, instead of accepting him wholeheartedly and not nitpicking about unimportant things. And about herself thinking again wrongly that her husband is the one who needed “fixing” at the therapist’s.
Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together…