Is your marital relationship marked by trust issues and a controlling partner? Control, typically driven by fear of abandonment, can leave you feeling trapped, controlled, and harmed by guilt-tripping. This damages the security of a relationship, but there IS wish for modification, and it could even save your marriage.
Marital Relationship Assistant Coach Roald Gerber understands. He was as soon as a controlling spouse, and his journey from control to connection influences change. He uses insights and tools to assist you:
* Recognize control, from subtle guilt-tripping to apparent strategies.
* Comprehend how fear of abandonment influences controlling habits.
* Address control in such a way that reduces conflict and promotes recovery.
* See how couples rebuild trust after years of pain, proving your marital relationship can be various..
This transformation isn't just about repairing a controlling spouse. It has to do with comprehending how your reactions and worries may play into the dynamic. This knowledge allows you to create a stronger, much healthier partnership.
If you battle with a managing partner and the psychological toll it takes, don't do it alone. Therapists like Roald focus on breaking devastating patterns and rebuilding trust. It takes effort, BUT a safe, supportive marriage is possible.
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I was the controlling one without even noticing and she says she’s done and that there is no hope for reconciliation.
sounds like she just doesn’t like you very much. She is just using that as an excuse.
@@zuzu7250 in hindsight it’s obvious that I let my insecurities run wild. I was incredibly suffocating. And yes she probably no longer likes me lol I wouldn’t have liked myself either.
@Infinitevanity there is always hope! I am a recovering controller and a Marriage Helper customer. Today I volunteer w/ Marriage Helper. My insecurities also drove my need to control. In my marriage, it started innocently enough with “I’m just trying to help” and gradually evolved. I likened it to two ships traveling parallel and then one differing course by a degree or two, the control in my marriage eventually led to us breaking. You can see my story here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HG-LiyBpaL4
Be sure to check out Marriage Helper’s free Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/783603618395431/
I don’t agree with the woman will deal with controlling behaviour much longer than men. This has not been what I’ve seen or experienced. Sounds like male bashing?
Maybe this is a cultural thing? Being a black man my male family and friends are not controlling in their relationships.
I controlled my wife for 22 years before our marriage broke. I found Marriage Helper in late 2016. Today, my wife and I are reconciled for over 6 years. There is hope.
“I didn’t even realize I was doing this!” – GOLD!
“She wants out and I have no idea why!” – Yes, this was me!
“I have this lingering fear that he will go back…” – Yes, I heard this.
“I needed to prove that I was different” – Yes, I had to work through this. Time, consistency, patience, vulnerability were all required for me.
My wife watched me like a hawk as I re-learned how to be a spouse and let go of control.
How can I identify if I’m being controlling? https://marriagehelper.com/controlling-not-realize-dr-joe-show-podcast/
– I scored 59/70 on the assessment here.
WHY and HOW we control: https://marriagehelper.com/why-people-control-others-and-how-they-do-it/
See my story here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HG-LiyBpaL4
See Marriage Helper’s Free Facebook Group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/783603618395431/