Fighting with interaction in your marriage? Do not stress, you're not alone. In this video, you'll learn useful techniques for bring back open and effective communication with your partner.
With the right method, it's possible to restore communication in your marriage. By concentrating on active listening, revealing your sensations and needs, and reserving dedicated time to talk, you can deepen your connection with your spouse and revive the love and understanding that when was a foundation of your relationship.
Keep in mind, reconstructing communication takes some time and effort, but the benefits deserve it. So don't quit, keep working at it, and you'll see the positive results in your relationship. With the right techniques in location, you can revive the love and understanding that when was a foundation of your relationship.
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Thank you for this video. Went to couple’s therapy yesterday and this is exactly what I needed. Great timing
Awesome!! So glad this was helpful my friend!
These are really great ideas. I am trying to figure out how to implement them . My WS, will the biggest thing of interest for him right now is the l o. From the moment he gets home from work until dinner time he is sitting at his desk at a computer or with his phone waiting to hear from the lo. After dinner he immediately goes to his desk and waits to hear from the lo and stays there until it’s bedtime. He used to go on walks and Hiking he used to ride bikes and work out at the gym he used to initiate outings with our adult children and grandchildren. It is almost impossible to get him away from his desk or that phone. They are links to the LO and that is the only thing in his life that is important to him besides his work. When somebody has no interest outside of this, how do you utilize these tips for communication.
The same principles apply my friend! Whether or not someone is limerence should not change how you act or treat them. Keep practicing SMART Contact. Work on your PIES! Do it for YOU. Stop the push behaviors! Stop trying to “get” your spouse to do things! Eventually, limerence will fade. If you work on all of these things, you will be the better option! And even if things don’t work out, you are the best version of yourself for the future. Please consider trying to attend one of our workshops! You can also call our team directly to get some more free resources that can help you during this time my friend! Our number is 1 866 903 0990!
While separated and at different paces in our personal healing when I’ve asked open ended questions I’ve been called out for snooping or interrogating if I’m too curious. I usually get away with “how are you?” And a single follow up. I understand why she pulls back at the moment. She desires freedom more than anything. I’ve had to learn not to take it to personal and cherish the details about life she does decide to share when she is comfortable.
It does hurt to want to know how she is and be treated like I shouldn’t care because of what we’ve been through. I’m relearning how she communicate and makes decisions and I’m sure that will continue to change as she does.
Hey Jordan! Great to see you in the comments again! We love hearing all that you’re learning and working through. It sounds like you are very introspective and we absolutely love that! Please let us know if there’s anything else we can do to help you. We hope this video was helpful for your situation regardless! Blessings my friend,
I agree it’s more likely but not completely, it’s the opposite for us, it’s me as the husband that feels lonely.
Is affection without touch a thing?
Hey friend! One thing we talk about on this channel is working on your PIES. This means working on becoming the best you can be physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. So when you think of affection, consider the idea of how showing affection for your wife can be categorized into those 4 areas of attraction! We talk a lot more about it on this channel so I hope you subscribe!
Kimberly bless you for saying how spouse2 may be constantly coming into the conversation carefully considering what spouse1 is interested in and stimulated by, but eventually does deserve/need spouse1 to care about spouse2’s needs and interests. Some spouse1’s can be so needy from some childhood brokenness that they need the world to revolve around them all the time, and that is something they need to work through if they want to have a healthy relationship with spouse2 or anyone for that matter.
Absolutely! We typically advise that you be the first person to show these interests though. When you show interest in your spouse and what they are passionate about, then it causes you to be more attractive intellectually because you truly care. Eventually, when a person feels attractive, then they will begin to reciprocate the same feelings! All this meaning, don’t try to control your spouse or get them to show interest. You can only control your spouse! Eventually, conversations like this can be had but you might want to consider getting a MH certified coach to help you do that! Was that helpful? Thanks again for commenting we and are so glad you’re a part of our community!
Absolutely love you both so much!!!
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Blessings,
Good tips on communicating.
Glad you think so!
I had always interpreted the I in Intellectual of the PIES as my learning more so I would be more interesting. I never interpreted it as being interested in what my spouse learned. Thank you for giving me this new perspective.
Thanks for sharing! It’s always great to try to see things from a different perspective. Thanks for commenting friend! Don’t forget to subscribe if you haven’t already!