What to do if your husband loves another woman but you wish to save your marriage.
My name is Paul Friedman. I'm the creator of The Marital relationship Structure I have actually been doing this for a long time. Over 22 years before this, I was a divorce conciliator I have seen it all. I want to assist you. The subject is this, what to do if your husband is in love with another woman but you want to save your marriage.
Let me inform you that it's highly likely that you can unless your spouse has currently left and he's relocated with this other lady, and you have lost all interaction in which case this is not the video for you. I am sorry deeply sorry that this has taken place however there needs to be something that we can deal with if he's still living under the exact same roofing system. If you're still interacting all the time probably you have kids then that helps you too just so you understand my specialty returns to when I altered over to conserving marriages because I was a divorce mediator so I had the ability to go get clients for my brand-new profession from a divorce support group for women, and all of the females who came to me had their marital relationships not simply safe however entirely reversed and here's the takeaway that you need to have.
If you take a look at marital relationship in a different way than what we have been led to think in the world you can do this because everything we have learned on the planet about marital relationship is basically wrong, and there is a lot right from a religious point of view however our point of view at The Marriage Foundation isn't spiritual however it is spiritual but we don't do the "he needs to have", "she ought to have been all of that," what I did due to the fact that I started this career due to the fact that one of my clients had actually asked me to save their marriage instead of end it to dissolve it.
Therefore, I had to study marital relationship from a different perspective and I'm informing you today the greatest takeaway you ought to have is this can be done. We will provide you the ways to do it also this is not an infomercial. It's important for you so top decide that your marital relationship can be conserved and he will come back to you. You need to be focused. There's a lot of work for you to do. I'm not going to pretend there's a lot of work it's nothing like what you may believe it is since properly to get your marriage back is to bring your true love, let's not call him your husband. Let's put this in more in deeper terms. He is your true love and he has actually fallen for another person. We need to be realistic that you did not know how to be wed it isn't your fault. We're simply not taught in this world how to be married.
If you're a subscriber to this channel and by all ways, you should be then you recognize that I have specific things that I say over and over once again. This is one of the huge ones. It isn't your fault but it's not his fault either. We're not taught how to be wed. We're not even taught about ourselves about what we are there's this "confusion" about it even people who are deeply spiritual and spiritual. I'm giving you an example here state things like of course you have a soul and once again, no faith here. Of course, you have a soul. No, you do not have a soul. You are a soul. If you have a soul who is you, what is you? The mind? I do not understand however when you state, "I am a soul." I am developed in God's image. I have a body. I have a mind. I have free choice. I have found my true love and you have a lot to deal with enough so that this is going to exercise for you.
Here's the thing. The work required is extremely favorable work from this point forward. You want everything that you do with your partner to be filled with recovery and love which brings us to point second. Put all aside. Put aside all of your anger. Put aside all of the blame that he had no right to do.
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I’m in need of help. My husband had an affair for over 2 years, and I believe he still has feelings for his mistress. We have been back together since Thanksgiving. I’m really trying to be a more loving devoted wife. But he has commented more than once that he feels I’m being fake. We have been to counseling, and he quit. I need help
Hang in there.