My partner doesn't value me.
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My Wife Doesn’t Appreciate Me | Paul Friedman
OUR WESTERN CIVILIZATION TODAY , UNFORTUNATELY , HAS TAUGHT US EVERYTHING WE KNOW REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS, BUT TRAGICALLY IT’S ALL BACKWARDS. ( FORGET, “LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS THYSELF,” NOW IT”S “LOVE THYSELF; FORGET ABOUT THY NEIGHBOR; HE CAN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF.” ) I USED TO WORK IN A COURT HOUSE, AND THAT’S THE BASIS FOR EVERY SINGLE CASE OF DIVORCE THAT CAME THROUGH OUR OFFICE…….SELF-WILL RUN RIOT.
LEAST THIS SOUND REDICULOUS, I HAVE BELONGED TO A 12 STEP PROGRAM FOR MOST OF MY ADULT LIFE, AND GONE THERE REGULARLY. YOU’D THINK THAT WE’D GET A LOT OF UNDERSTANDING AND EMPATHY, BUT I WAS SHOCKED WHEN , DURING MY FIRST MEETING, THE “OLD TIMERS,” POINTED THE FINGER AT ME AND SAID THAT MY
BASIC PROBLEM WAS THAT I WAS “LIVING ON SELF WILL RUN RIOT.” I COULDN’T ARGUE.