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1. I just order one of your books. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We are both on our 5th marriage. We knew each other for 1 1/2 months before we got married. We loved each other dearly life was great at first. We also had a few things to learn to live with in the beginning. He is bi-polar. I am suicidal and have PTSD. We both take our meds as prescribed. Things went well for the first 2 years we had a few upland dogs as newlyweds do but nothing really major. Then one day my husband stopped making love to me 4 years ago. Then in the past 2 years I have found out that he had told me many lies and had been doing things behind my back that has cost us dearly financially. He also got a DUI and was on probation for 18 months. He is not loving or caring like he was in the beginning and he does not ever act like he even notices me anymore. Many times in the past 4 Yeats I have told him that I want a divorce. Because I don’t trust him anymore nor does he act like he loves me anymore. And everytime I tell him that I want out of the marriage he asks me for anther chance to change and to make things right. I still in love with who I fell in love with gives him another chance. Every 2 – 3 weeks for the past 4 years has been the same. No change ever accures. I tell him that I can’t allow him to hold me in a sexless loves marriage and he then again proclaims his love for me and still he never tries to show any k8nd of emotion or love or desire for me. I can’t keep going like this. I have COPD and DDD I am in pain much of the time and have invested everything ounce of the energy and love and trust into this man and marriage that I feel that I have left. And I feel that he has not invested anything of his heart or anything of himself into us or this Marriage at all. I am at wits end. My health 8s not good and I don’t want to die unhappy in an unloving marriage with a man that I don’t even fill that I know anymore. Please help me.

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